"This life must be a test,if it were the real thing,we'd be given better instructions."

    The sentence is come from the magnet to the icebox which Cristina gave me when we left Nanjing,becaue of it's meaningful.

    What's  a pity that I don't konw the name of the flowers.They are  flowering from March to September when I am in Liuzhou, they'll be flowering all the year round,I think.

     I love the five leaves flowers all the time,that's not the conincident as follows:

  1、Anne Baby will have a baby two or three months later.

      It's an important news for me.I think she'll never get married or have a child,in other words she can  bring up a child without marriage.A special woman.

     I don't konw whether she have found a loving husband or only a male,but I can taste the feeling of to be a mother.How great!But I admit  that  the book "Niuniu-A father's reading note" affected me a lot.

      Dama,fighting.....we are together.

 2、I've got Honghong's telephone tonight with pleasantly surprised.

      She came back again,left her husband,left her daught,left her hometown,pursue what she have dreamed for many years.So clinging woman. She always give me power.From her talk,from her action.Honghong welcome to join in our range again.Blessing you!

光的笔记　四则

席慕容

假说
被所有的光都拒绝了之后
黑暗便开始显现
（一如思想中那些既定的概念）
威胁着要进入一切的容器
然后成为永远不再改变的固体
我于是决心点燃起自己来寻找你

设定
我并没有哭泣　可是
你为什么总在
我将要开启下一扇门再下一扇门
之外
行动似乎从未终止
只是时间顺延
所谓光明远景　难道真的是
一场刚好持续了一生的哄骗

实验
不想重复　却又
不得不重叠
白昼间努力追随着你的种种举止
在夜里以细微的差距都进入了我的诗
一直忘了问你
在皮影戏里最曲折动人的剧情
到底是光　还是那影子

结论
夏夜的星空
只上演悲剧
当那闪耀眩目的讯息
终于传达到我的心里
你在千万光年距离之外的星体
其实早已熄灭　冷却
而我那狂喜地回答着的光芒啊
却还毫不知情　还正在
急急向着你奔去的路上

    I told Niu that I felt relax eventually when the awful things happened again yesterday. The reflect from the outside excitement  along with the change of one's mind. It  is really a success.

   He answered:"That's great!Don't be afraid,and call me whenever you feel unhappy."

   My friends give me many useful suggestion these days and make me more powerful,I'm so lucky growing with them!

    YueLiang said two years ago in Nanjing"Once you conquer what you disgusting,it proves that you are mature..." 

   XiaoCai said"you can't satisfy everyone,and somebody will never be satisfied..."

   Farmer said"You need adapted yourself,don't  be too seriously..."

   Honghong said"You should admit defeat sometimes,have a try!"

   Niu said"Remember avoiding conflict directly."

   They can see something of my shortcomings,or may be only some contravention between realism and my thought,or it's the distance

between I and the society indeed.
 

   We can give any "why" various  logical reasons,but why the real reason is usually few people know?What ridiculous is that people always ask "why" continuously.

   Oh,an exciting news,I find out the tree I've mentined in the last blog.Thanks to my colleague.We walked together yesterday,and I told he I can't find the tree,with that ,he point to a tree which we'll pass through.Haw-haw,yes,it is,so coincidently.

  In addition,I found the green path is charmful for the first time today :

   Accidental gains last weekend in Yufengshan park:shows for free.How rich and colorful liuzhou people's life are.

      I smelled the flavour of Osmanthus the day before yesterday when I passed through a green path.So wonderful that push me out of the tired work. And then,I calculated the date.Wow,without doubt,the autumn is coming. 

     I told Dama the fresh finding.Dama said,"Oh,there usually be a chance under the Osmanthus tree if you are lucky enough,don't you know? "Really?I think I should distinguish them from so many unknown trees,so that I will get a chance to come across with somebody,haw-haw.But I can't discover the Osmanthus tree on the way went to office this noon,although I smelled the aroma affirmatively.What a pity!

     xixi,caicai,huahuan,mimi and doudou,they are our new family members.QQ pets,belong to my mother,my younger sister,my aunt,my mother's sister and my older sister respectively.How busy they are!

     My appetite is so hearty on these days' supper,what's wrong?It's worrying.

    Wow, "You eat with that mouth?", a splendid sentence.It means"your words are so crude,and your mouth is too dirty to eat ".Hum,I get it.

    After I reported my idea,situation and surroundings through phone line,my older sister said:"I found you are plenty of imagination...." Meanwhile I realized it too.

    I must admit that it comes from a series of my personality.

    First of all,I shrot of security. Thus I believe everything would be happened.That's why Piao always said,"I think you'll get married at any moment",Haha,who knows.And so I usually live in my dreams,no matter how old I am. The result goes into two extremeness.One,will very disappointed when face to the realism.Very easy injured.The other,will full of longing and to strive,to pursue,to enjoy the process.To some extent, I am more positive in the face of life.

   Following,because of the imagination I will have curiousity about many things,and then I will to find the answer,truth is best. So that I will ask many foolish questions to my friends occasionaly.

   Finally,I will leave a naive impression on my friends.I am childish by far.

    Missing Beijing journey that spended with XiaoYao last autumn.Shichahai,Wild Great Wall.

    I watched "March of the Penguins".A film tell the survival story of Penguins.How lovely these babies are.

   Firstly:I was called again this morning by a stupid guy, mingtong.So crazy.

   Secondly:There are five friends have answered my questions by far.They are 猫，思思，雪，娃娃,丁丁 adding 10 points each people.But most important are their opinions about me, A haha:

    猫：可爱，傻得可爱，傻得可爱的冒泡儿 http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_495135d201000adr.html

   思思：聪明,幽默,能干   http://maplexu1114.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!11DB0EA68D485AFF!365.entry?owner=1

   雪：热情,智慧,勇敢.  http://chengxue1984.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!B2BA90D8723E8DF6!161.entry?_c=BlogPart

   娃娃：是我朋友，对我很好，都有自己的思想  http://chengxue1984.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!B2BA90D8723E8DF6!161.entry?_c=BlogPart

   丁丁： 可爱，会撒娇，勇敢  http://dingyalin1981.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!42E7BEADFAB539CE!1471.entry?owner=1&MSPPError=$-2147217379$loginpost$481$

   Nobody say me beautiful,why?why?why?5555......

   Thirdly:Lala is called by wawa to play the game,and then lala said to me,"you didn't call me,because you don't think I am so important to you..."Aha,that's the point,a pity but clever woman.

   Fourthly:丁丁 give me another link which also paly the same game,she said "these quesions are more instereting.....".There are more than 60 questions in calling game.My god!

   Lastly: I am so sorry to find that I destroyed the rule when 猫 discussed the rule with me again and again.I should answer the question that my last player questioned at last ,then must answer the all questions and change one of them to my next players.Oh,my god!

PS:

Extract:

1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other's respect quicker than inconsistency.

2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don't confide intimate details to your colleagues.

3. Keep your business to yourself. Don't share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you'll have left the impression that you're indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.

4. Don't ask anyone to do anything you wouldn't do yourself.

5. Communicate-simply and often.

6. Keep your eyes on the objective.

7. Don't get drawn into colleagues' personal lives.

8. Keep cool. Don't respond instantly or say yes to everything.

9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable asset.

10. Be good at your job. Know that you're good. Self-respect is the key. It'll show up in the way people deal with you.

11. Accept that you can't please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time. 

A Calling Game （点名游戏）

点名规则：
A. 被点到的要在自己的博客里写下自己的答案，然后去掉一个你最不喜欢的问题再加上一个你的问题，仍然组成20个问题，传给其他8个人，列出8个需要回答问题的人的名字，还要通知对方——你被点名了，被点名者不得拒绝回答问题，完成游戏的人将会永远得到大家的祝福。
B. 这8个人要在自己的博客里注明是从哪里接到的，并且再传给其他8个人，让游戏继续下去，不得回传。被点到名字的人将会得到大家的祝福，并且所有的愿望都会在不久的将来实现！

1. 你相信世上有天长地久的爱情吗???你相信有人会爱你一辈子吗?

   Answer:Of course, I am not.Nothing is unchangeable.

2. 你怎么知道自己喜欢一个人？ 

   Answer:Pay more attention and spend more time on she or he.

3. 有没有想过如果以后结婚对象不是现在的恋人，会是啥感觉?

   change the question

3.有没有想过以后的结婚对象是以前的恋人，会是啥感觉？

   Answer:It's not surprising,everything would happened in the future.

4. 最近最郁闷的事? 

   Answer:Should do more sport exercise,should be more decent,should be more calm.

5. 你最希望从朋友（不包括爱人）那里得到的是什么？

   Answer: Exchange sentiment in our personal life.
 
6. 你最想去哪个地方？为什么？ 

    Answer:Go there where have mountain.Because I love climbing.

7. 推荐一家你认为好吃又实惠的美食店。 

   Answer:Xiaozhang grilled fish in wuhan.

8. 如果你非常思念一个人，你该怎么办？   

   Answer:Do nothing, only to miss she or he intently. 

9. 你记得父母的生日？

  Answer: They are the common sense to me.

10.遇到喜欢的人，你是勇敢表白还是默默关注？

    Answer:I do on sbs and don't on others,it's up to each other.

11.说出点你名的人的3个优点(不可删除题)

    Answer:Enthusiasm,optimism and aspirant,OK?

12. 什么事情会让你觉得很幸福？

    Answer:Simply happiness such as eating,listening music,sleepping,chatting with good friend,ect.

13.如果人生可以重来，你最想改变的是什么？

    Answer: I don't want to return to past. Longing for spend my life quickly,as a holy mission.

14.你五年内的目标明确了么？

    Answer:Without doubt,I will marry to a man and have children.

15.你对你的近况满意吗？有什么需要改变？

   Answer:Content is temporary.Change everything if possible.

16.你现在最想拥有的是什么？

   Answer:Money.It help me to achive my goal.

17.你最讨厌的一件事是什么？

   Answer:Say goodbye.

18. 你这辈子吃过的最难吃的东西是什么？

    Answer:Chinese traditional medicine.

19.到现在为止，除了父母和爱人（包括恋人），你最感激的人 

    Answer:My friends in my heart who are influencing me and alterting me.

20.你学得感情重要还是物质重要？

     Answer:Sentiment first.

    from http://xljiang.blog.sohu.com/62668273.html 

    贝壳，娃娃，雪雪，猫，丁丁，思思，刘婷，YanJuan我已经给你们机会啦！

    玩不玩随你们...

    Ok,game is over.

    At last,blessing my dream will come true earlier.

How can I just let you walk away, just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking every breath with you, ooh
You're the only one who really knew me at all

How can you just walk away from me,
when all I can do is watch you leave
Cos we've shared the laughter and the pain and even shared the tears
You're the only one who really knew me at all

So take a look at me now, oh there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me,
just the memory of your face
Ooh take a look at me now, well there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against the odds and that's what I've got to face

I wish I could just make you turn around,
turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you,
so many reasons why
You're the only one who really knew me at all

So take a look at me now, well there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me, just the memory of your face
Now take a look at me now, cos there's just an empty space

But to wait for you, is all I can do and that's what I've got to face
Take a good look at me now, cos I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
It's the chance I've gotta take

Take a look at me now

     I like the song now.Listened it from TV accidentally,and I search it from BaiDu by the lyric.

     "against all the odds",a phrase, it means no matter success or failure.Remember it.

     I don't know what to say in the blog these several days.Zhuzhu said,"you can write your mood when you think nothing,when you senseless,just like now".

    Haha,it's a good idea.In any case, I want to write someting in English.

   My colleauges and I got the top of the eshan after sunfall yesterday,which is a  hill in Liuzhou.The feeling is so bad that I can't enjoy the scene absolutely.Because their action was very quickly and I followed them  hardly,then I nearly lost consciousness when we reach the end.

    The  accident proved again that I usually get great enthusiasm to plunge into playing foremost,meanwhile I drop behind formost.